the desi.bitch

bitch is a verb as much as a noun.

hit & run

I received this email from a friend this a.m. Sound familiar?

i’m getting your mail at a time i’m less than impressed with men but i’m still smarting from this most recent guy who chased me, made me feel so special -  i really thought in 2 dates and an abundance of flirty texts – that we might have something …some potential for something real. Then he vanished. no replies to calls, texts, facebook. nada. i was so hurt. then confused. did i sawy something? then i was upset. last night, after a week of silence i texted him a witty msg – for my own closure alluding to this new status quo of nothingness. and nothing back. so at least now i’m not wondering if it’s me! and i can safely label him an asshole who wasn’t worth it, and move on. still disappointing though. more because i really liked him. and it’s my fault for hoping, i guess. men!! sigh.

Issshhh. I think what makes the situation worse = my $0.02 = is the not knowing why! Why don’t men just grow the hell up??? Girls would NEVER do this to someone, right?

August 27, 2008 - Posted by | dating, men | , ,

3 Comments »

  1. sounds SO familiar. reference all chapters and pages of “He’s Just Not That Into You.” sad, but true. or the asshole will turn up in say, 5 months from now, and text “hey, wassup?” in that casual manner like nothing ever happened and YOU were the one who disappeared on him.
    on the gender note – i admit i have flaked out on men when i’m not into them. but then they were never into me, either so that makes it a whole lot easier :D

    Comment by freaksindc | September 1, 2008 | Reply

  2. Girls do tht too :) unfortunately. To see thru the phoniness “c how he treats people/beings who are of no use to him”

    Comment by Ravi | September 2, 2008 | Reply

  3. @Ravi, good point but … won’t phonies of both genders then ACT nicer to the ‘useless’ people?

    Comment by desibitch | September 2, 2008 | Reply


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