hit & run
I received this email from a friend this a.m. Sound familiar?
i’m getting your mail at a time i’m less than impressed with men but i’m still smarting from this most recent guy who chased me, made me feel so special - i really thought in 2 dates and an abundance of flirty texts – that we might have something …some potential for something real. Then he vanished. no replies to calls, texts, facebook. nada. i was so hurt. then confused. did i sawy something? then i was upset. last night, after a week of silence i texted him a witty msg – for my own closure alluding to this new status quo of nothingness. and nothing back. so at least now i’m not wondering if it’s me! and i can safely label him an asshole who wasn’t worth it, and move on. still disappointing though. more because i really liked him. and it’s my fault for hoping, i guess. men!! sigh.
Issshhh. I think what makes the situation worse = my $0.02 = is the not knowing why! Why don’t men just grow the hell up??? Girls would NEVER do this to someone, right?
sounds SO familiar. reference all chapters and pages of “He’s Just Not That Into You.” sad, but true. or the asshole will turn up in say, 5 months from now, and text “hey, wassup?” in that casual manner like nothing ever happened and YOU were the one who disappeared on him.
on the gender note – i admit i have flaked out on men when i’m not into them. but then they were never into me, either so that makes it a whole lot easier
Girls do tht too
unfortunately. To see thru the phoniness “c how he treats people/beings who are of no use to him”
@Ravi, good point but … won’t phonies of both genders then ACT nicer to the ‘useless’ people?